Deciding whom you choose as your friends says as much about you as it does them. You may choose your friends based on similar interests. You may choose them because you’re both polar opposites of each other and find this interesting and intriguing. Often, friends become “friends” because they naturally attract each other because of similar personalities and temperaments. Sometimes it’s just circumstances that bring two individuals together who then become friends.

   Whatever prompts a friendship, developing one is a very rewarding experience. This is especially true when, before you know it, a certain friendship turns into a unique lifelong close friendship. Again, it’s been said that a person normally has only a couple of very close friends in their life. Think of whom you consider as truly close friends. These are those select individuals you can trust and share deep thoughts and concerns with, without any reservations.

   在我们生活的日常戏剧和喜剧中，有朋友很好。虽然家庭是非常重要的，但朋友是你的选择中的不同的支持系统。俗话说，“你不能选择你的家庭，但是你可以选择你的朋友。”明智的选择他们会使你的生活更加的振奋和鼓舞人心。

   决定选择谁作为你的朋友，不仅表明他们是什么样的人，也说明你是什么样的人。你可能会根据相似的兴趣去选择你的朋友。你可能选择他们因为你们是截然相反的并且你觉得这很有趣。通常，朋友之所以成为朋友，是因为他们因相似的个性和气质而互相吸引。有时仅仅是环境把两个人聚在一起然后成为朋友。

   无论是什么促进了友谊，发展一段友谊是一种非常值得的经历。特别是不知不觉间，一段友谊变成一份独特的终身的亲密友谊。而且，据说一个人一生中通常只有几个非常亲密的朋友。想一下你认为谁是真正亲密的朋友。这些人是你可以信任和分享内心想法及担忧并且没有任何保留的人。